Too often in today’s society, comfort has taken the place of style and fashion in most segments of our community. Men consistently wearing the cheapest and sloppiest of clothing, not caring how they are perceived, not only from the women in our community, but women from other communities as well. This is the word on the street. We often see white men with their women, going out for the night and the female is wearing a nice, sexy dress or skirt with heels, and walking with her is her man wearing blue jeans, a t-shirt or flannel shirt, and tennis shoes. Either we don’t see or hear what others are saying about our fashion choices, or we don’t care. We are losing in the style and fashion arena to other men in other communities. We also see the designers who are selling these cheap and unattractive clothes, in the stores most frequented by white males, sell the same crap every year, and at the same stores. White men need a desperate over hall, in our fashion sense, and need to put a lot more money, time, and effort, in how we look, and how we dress. When you dress nice, you feel confident and secure in your appearance and your approach to women. Women will see you in the same light. Even a man that is not in the best of shape, if you dress nice, you will exhibit more self-assurance, self-respect, and confidence. You don’t have to go out and spend a fortune on clothes at one time. Instead, but one piece or one outfit each time you get a paycheck, until you have built a wardrobe that you feel comfortable with. Exercise, eat a proper diet, and build your wardrobe, and take pride as a white male to better yourself, and to project an image of high style, high fashion, class, and a rugged elegance. Buy a fashion magazine like GQ, Esquire, or even Men’s Health. Here are a few helpful suggestions below:
Fair skin white men should stay away from light colors. You want contrast. Dark colors that are safe, like black, dark blue, dark brown, dark greys, and solid colors. No patterns.
A sport jacket is a must. Wear with solid, dark, button up dress shirts. A nice pair of dress shoes with laces. no slip Ons, and especially no penny loafers, which are very feminine. Always wear dark socks. No bare feet in shoes. No Khaki pants or shorts. Do not wear clothes too tight, or too loose, which can make you look sloppy.
Boots always look good with jeans and a nice t-shirt, (Not cheap or dirty looking). Your wardrobe should include a couple of nice dark colored sports jackets, a couple of dark suits, a few casual but nice jeans, a couple of pairs of boots, (mountain and chukka boots, brown suede shoes or boots), and a good quality sports look should also be in your wardrobe. Always dress to impress, not what the occasion, or what location. You never know who you are going to run into. No more baseball caps, front ways or even worse, backwards. You’re not a teenager anymore.
A strong emphasis should be on your shoes and accessories like, a nice bracelet, watch, necklace, rings, sunglasses. Always ensure you either look classy, or authentically rugged, which is always a turn on for women. Remember, you are competing with other men out there, for the limited number of women in our society. You have to invest in yourself and your appearance. You should always be well groomed and well dressed. Your teeth should be pearly white! Bleach them if need be.
And finally, the most crucial, no women, and especially no man, wants to look at your feet and toes. Too many men have fallen into the sloppy, lazy, and disgusting habit of wearing flip flops. We have seen time and time again, men wearing flip flops while going out with their women, going out camping, mowing the lawn, and even in the winter. After speaking with many women over many years, this they tell me is a definite turn off. Flip flops should only be worn at the beach, at the pool, or if you must, in your house, but never outside in public. Its gross, and shows a lack of care, and a lack of fashion sense. Even if you have already secured your soulmate, again, no women or man wants to look down and see your feet and toes. (Ugh) Your shoes, is what really sells a man!